Esprit Mistress

Early Check-in

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Peninsula, on Sunday May 10 at 5:30PM

Early check-in for attendees who are fully paid and have pictures that were submitted or from the previous yearbook. The Early Check-in Desk will be just inside the door of the Peninsula Room.

Esprit Mistress

Sunday Evening Ice Breaker

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Peninsula, on Sunday May 10 at 6:00PM

On Sunday evening there will be an icebreaker Cocktail Party for all of the early arrivals at Esprit. Snacks will be provided by Esprit and wine, beer and cocktails will be available from the no-host bar. The party starts early in the evening and is a great time to renew old friendships and see what folks have been up to since the last Esprit.

For first-time attendees this is a fabulous time to meet people and get charged up for the coming week! The party will be held in the Peninsula room.

Years ago, the Icebreaker was held in the patio on the water side of the restaurant. The patio is slightly sunken and has glass all the way around it so that the diners in the restaurant can see the water. The attendees in 2001 promptly named it "The Fishbowl"!

This is the traditional kickoff to the week of Esprit. While this icebreaker is pretty much the same each year, Esprit definitely is not. The week is just getting started and there is a full slate of fun.

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Morning

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Monday May 11 at 8:00AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Monday May 11 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Overview and Welcome Message (no session)

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Monday May 11 at 9:00AM

WELCOME

2026 Esprit Theme for SO’s and Couples:

Breathe, Bloom, Belong.There is no better city to support you than Port Angeles, WA, an amazing community of support that enables you to love who you are by loving you first. The above picture visually embraces the light that comes from within as we return to the magic of who we are. It’s the joy of tapping into that authentic self. This community has supported the growth of Esprit for over 30 years. It has been my privilege to serve you for close to 24 of those (yes, I am counting the two years missed due to the pandemic). There is also no better conference to attend in terms of an opportunity for discovering how to love yourself, or enhancing loving the person you already are, both individually as an SO (Significant Other) or a person who is transgender or questioning, and/or as a couple.

This experience invites you to return to something essential...
to the magic of who you are.

There will be moments—sometimes within seconds of each other—when you feel deep pride in yourself... and then, just as quickly, moments of doubt, fear, or even self-judgment.
This is normal. This is human.
And here, it is all welcome.

Breathe.

Pause long enough to notice what is arising within you—without needing to fix it, judge it, or push it away. In that space, you begin to reconnect with yourself.

Bloom.

As you allow yourself to be seen—by you first—you begin to open. To soften. To grow into a deeper acceptance of your truth. This is where self-love begins to take root... not as perfection, but as presence.

Belong.

From that place, something powerful happens. You not only invite others to love you—you begin to receive that love. This is especially true within your relationship, where connection can deepen into something more authentic, more respectful, and more alive.

You may already know that being transgender is not a choice.
But living authentically... telling your truth... choosing love—for yourself and for others—is. And those choices take time, courage, and compassion.

This journey is not meant to be walked alone.

Our program offers a safe, supportive space for you—individually and as a couple—to reflect, to question, to feel, and to grow. Whether you are the person who is transgender, the significant other, or navigating this together, you will be met with understanding and care.

You may be facing choices that feel overwhelming or unfamiliar.
You may feel unprepared.
And yet, within this space, you will begin to find clarity—not by having all the answers, but by allowing yourself the space to explore.

Every relationship is unique.
While there may be shared threads, your story—your dynamic, your path—is your own.
Here, you will be supported in discovering what that means for you... with empathy, curiosity, and respect.
If you’ve attended Esprit before, you may notice how much has shifted within you and your relationship. That evolution is part of your journey—and it deserves to be honored.
Whether you are new or returning, partnered in any form, and navigating any identity within the gender and/or sexual orientation spectrum, you are welcome here.

This is a space to build connection.
To be heard.
To form friendships that remind you:

You are not alone.

At Esprit, we come together not because we have it all figured out...
but because we are willing to show up, to grow, and to support one another.

Because at the heart of it all...

When you breathe,
you create space.

When you bloom,
you become.

And when you belong,
you remember...

you have always had value—and you always will.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications, was “Born to Coach.” This is her 24th year as facilitator of the Esprit SO/Couples Program, working with both Significant Others and Couples.

She is a Consultant, Coach, Trainer/Facilitator & Speaker. She worked on her doctorate in Human Sexuality. She studied with Brian McNaught, called the "Godfather of Gay Sensitivity Training" by the New York Times, at the Thornfield Annual Conference on Sexuality, where she completed a special track on corporate diversity and gay and transgender issues in the workplace. She works passionately for the acceptance and inclusion of the community of transgender, gender diverse, and gender questioning individuals, saying, "Not only should they not be left behind, we must invite them to lead the way and take a place at the head of the table." During 2017, Dotti and Brian McNaught created live hangouts called “Talk With America.”

Their intention was to:

• Create a place where we can meet and talk with wisdom, grace, and humor about how we are reclaiming our realities and envisioning our future.
• Compassionately listen as we engage with people in our lives who have different attitudes and opinions about issues we hold dear.
• Respond, vs react, as we take actions that reflect the values we hold true
• Embrace transformational vs adversarial interactions

Dotti says, “If we really, truly want to hear and understand how our family, friends, or antagonists feel, there are ways to make it easier for them to talk, and for us to listen. What we did at Talk With America has application to what we do at Esprit through the SO/Couples program.”

Dotti has coached the expansive spectrum of gender diverse persons one-on-one, and has also keynoted conferences. Additionally, she has facilitated groups for SO's and couples at other conferences such as Fantasia Fair, Southern Comfort, and IFGE (International Foundation for Gender Education), in addition to her ongoing work with Esprit.

Dotti has authored various articles, and since 1985, has worked with both youth and adults one- on-one, as well as facilitated seminars and workshops for organizations, universities, corporations, religious institutions and Leadership classes. Sodexho, Info Quest Clinical, the Girl Scouts, NCCJ (National Conference of Community and Justice), the University of Kentucky, Women Out Front, and Soulforce are some of the diverse groups who have secured her services in the areas of executive coaching, personal transformation, LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer) issues, diversity, team-building, and non-violent process.

Two Women & a Poodle, Dotti Berry, her spouse, Robynne Sapp, and their standard poodle, Rylee Joy, completed a year long journey, www.GayIntoStraightAmerica.com, in 2006, with the intention of engaging hearts and minds, creating authentic connections, and transcending differences that separate us. They traveled throughout the state of Washington in 2012, speaking about the importance of The Freedom to Marry for ALL. Unfortunately, they lost Rylee Joy, their black Standard Poodle on April 6, 2016. They welcomed a new addition to their family, a red standard poodle, Baylee Joy, who attended her first Esprit in 2017. During Thanksgiving, 2018, they added another family member, Willow, Baylee Joy’s mother. The family of four always look forward to being at Esprit!

 

Message from Dotti Berry:

The SO program at Esprit is invaluable for Significant Others, as well as couples who attend together. Whether you are attending for the first time or have attended multiple times, constantly creating your relationship in the “moment” is essential to its success and its ability to thrive in the midst of whatever obstacles you encounter.

Facilitating the SO program isn’t about doing “presentations.” The descriptions below merely serve as the foundation for the particular session. I facilitate the process, and we work with what each of you brings into the group session. YOU are the reason the groups work because it is the information and insights you share about your own personal journey that are key as others witness your process and vice versa. When you ask your personal questions and share your personal story, you enable others to tap into the reservoir of insights that are yours.

If you’ve participated in the past as a SO or as a couple, please join us again. Each year is new because you are constantly evolving and re-inventing yourself if you are alive and growing. You are not the same people as you were last year. You are like any any person/couple in relationship. You have new issues/situations which come up on a daily basis.

And if you think you have “done that already” because you already participated in the SO/ Couples program at Esprit in the past, trust me, you haven’t! And it’s all the more reason to attend. Why? You could have “done it already” in a past year, but because you haven’t yet attended Esprit 2026, you haven’t addressed your relationship in the present...and that is what keeps it alive and vital.

The nuances of each relationship are different, adding texture and meaning to life in an expanded way as they are explored. Refuse to succumb to the ordinary and simply “survive” as an individual or as a couple in your relationship. Commit to examining and bringing to light all that is and relish the opportunity to discover how to thrive vs survive, whatever it takes!

Contact Information:

Dotti Berry , CEO, Training2Transform Global Communications 1-360-305-0909 coachdottiberry@me.com

Cindi Berry

Pickleball Beginners Class

Presenter: Cindi Berry

Elk's Pickleball Courts, on Monday May 11 at 10:00AM

What's pickleball? This fast-moving court sport is rapidly becoming a fad all across the nation! Take a badminton-style court, slightly overgrown ping-pong paddles, two or four maniacal players, throw in a whiffle ball and watch the action start!

Don't know how to play? Then this introductory beginners session is for you! We'll have a couple of experienced players to teach you the rules and some basic techniques so you'll be ready for the tournament that follows.

Esprit is organizing an in-house tournament this year (usually we play with the locals of Port Angeles). We'll have more details as they become available.

Samantha Candelaria

The Basics of Presenting Female (formerly Cross Dressing 101)

Presenter: Samantha Candelaria

Peninsula, on Monday May 11 at 10:00AM

This is the ideal introduction to cross-dressing for the beginning crossdresser. The class will cover a wide array of topics, including dealing with body hair, wigs, breastforms, shopping, clothes, makeup, shoes, accessories, being a girl in public, and more.

Lea Foster

Coming Out Late - Navigating the Mental Health Challenges

Presenter: Lea Foster

Peninsula, on Monday May 11 at 11:00AM

My presentation will host a discussion of the challenges and opportunities many of us face coming out late in life. After all, those who decide to present part time or transition late in life are generally well established in their careers, often with a partner, and with family. Coming out at this stage presents many challenges to the status quo, particularly when there is push back from friends, colleagues, family, or your partner. As many of you know, arriving at the decision to come out is hard enough without having to negotiate your self with your community. There will be an open and frank discussion about these issues.

Presenter Info

Lea Foster is a mental health professional and counsellor working with those who come out late in life. She was a registered psychotherapist in Toronto until she moved to Vancouver in 2021. She is active in the Vancouver trans and crossdressing communities and was on the organizing committee of Esprit 2025. She attended Esprit for the first time in 2024. She is available for consultations and counselling from Vancouver.

Cindi Berry

Pickleball Tournament

Presenter: Cindi Berry

Elk's Pickleball Courts, on Monday May 11 at 12:00PM

What's pickleball? This fast-moving court sport is rapidly becoming a fad all across the nation! Take a badminton-style court, slightly overgrown ping-pong paddles, two or four maniacal players, throw in a whiffle ball and watch the action start!

Esprit is organizing an in-house tournament this year (usually we play with the locals of Port Angeles). We'll have more details as they become available.

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Monday May 11 at 1:00PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Kelly Iriye

You're a FIT, Not a Size (Monday Session)

Presenter: Kelly Iriye

Peninsula, on Monday May 11 at 1:30PM

Tired of bands that move, cups that spill, or straps that just won’t stay put?  Every bra is unique, just like you.  Size doesn’t mean a perfect fit. Kelly Iriye from Northwest Bras in Sequim, WA will be onsite talking about how to correctly fit a bra,with a display of products for demonstration.  Measurements and consulting will be available to find the perfect bra.

Presenter Info

Kelly Iriye is with Northwest Bras, a Sequim, WA bra shop. We support women who've HAD IT with bras. We understand the frustration, irritation, and down-right anger towards the bands that move, the cups that spill, and the straps that just won't stay put.

Northwest Bras can solve your bra-blems. Our fitters are trained to find the perfect fit for your unique body and style. We offer wired, wire-free, lined, padded, and bralette styles so you can take the frustration out of getting dressed in the morning.

Each bra is unique, just like you. Size doesn't mean a perfect fit. We can help you find the perfect fit with our vast size ranges. We cater up to an R cup and a 56 band - let us help you!

Paige Larson

Bowling

Organizer: Paige Larson

Off-site, on Monday May 11 at 2:30PM

Bowling afternoon - details TBA

Presenter Info

TBA

Jan Jefferies

Stephanie Avion "Cue the Fun" Pool Tournament

Organizer: Jan Jefferies

Elks Pool Room, on Monday May 11 at 6:00PM

Registration: 6pm
Play starts: 7pm

Pool tables have always gone hand in hand with adventure, vice, and women of mystery. Usually it's the men who own the room, but at Esprit things are a bit different.

Imagine a roomful of short-skirted hoochies competing fiercely for the prized title of Esprit Pool Tournament Champion. A 20's gangster moll here, a film noir femme fatale there, and a biker chick over by the bar...drop them all into a small pool hall, and you have the Annual Esprit Pool Tournament.

The Naval Elks Lodge hosts the tournament in their private pool room. There will be assistants to help run the tournament. The Elks has a no-host bar and will provide a taco bar for about $17.00.

This is a friendly tournament and everyone has plenty of opportunities to play regardless of skill level. We will follow the Official Rules of the BCA Pool League (with a few changes to better accommodate recreational play) and contact the pool tournament coordinator, if you have other questions.

Back at the Red Lion, many attendees also enjoy hanging out in the hotel bar which truly becomes one of the hottest and most interesting places in town during the week of Esprit.

The tournament was renamed in 2020/2021 in honour of Stephanie Avion, who served for many years on the Esprit Committee.

 

Esprit Mistress

Day trip to Victoria BC and High Tea at the Empress hotel

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Victoria, BC, on Tuesday May 12 at 8:00AM

Meet in Esprit Lobby at 7:30 am. Passport or Enhanced Drivers License is required. This excursion will cost you about $180 which is NOT included in your Esprit fee.

This year we will again travel to beautiful British Columbia for High Tea and a full day of sightseeing. You will want to wear your finest frock (the Empress has a dress code) and of course a beautiful hat. An extra bag is suggested to carry walking shoes. When we disembark from the Coho ferry we can engage one of Victoria's finest horsedrawn carriages and tour the area. After Tea you can sightsee and shop the wonderful downtown Victoria..

The Empress

The Jewel of the Pacific, The Empress is one of Victoria's highlights. Cresting the city's Inner Harbour, this 460-room hotel was built in the Edwardian style and recently restored to its original grandeur, with antique furniture and luxurious decor. Considered to be the most photographed attraction on Vancouver Island, The Empress was originally designed by Francis Rattenbury, and opened in 1908.

Rising regally on the banks of Victoria's Inner Harbour, the Empress is the symbolic centrepiece of Victoria and conveniently located adjacent to the Convention Centre, Parliament Buildings, Royal British Columbia Museum, shops and local sites. The hotel has long been accustomed to entertaining Hollywood celebrities; Rita Hayworth, Jack Benny, Pat O'Brien, Douglas Fairbanks, Katherine Hepburn, Bob Hope, Bing Crosby, Tallulah Bankhead, Roger Moore, John Travolta, Barbara Streisand, Harrison Ford and a host of others have passed through its lobby.

In true British tradition, the hotel is famous for its elegant Afternoon Tea - served to over 75,000 visitors annually! Savour tea in the finest tradition, accompanied by berries and Chantilly cream, scones, crumpets, preserves, sandwiches, pastries and tarts, all served with silver service in the main lobby!

Due to increased border security requirements, you WILL REQUIRE at least a PASSPORT or an ENHANCED DRIVERS LICENSE for Customs and Immigration. The Coho Ferry fare is about US$23 each way. The Empress High Tea is about C$130 including tip. A carriage ride is about C$40 per person. We will meet in the Registration Area around 7:30 AM. Note that a small US border entry fee may apply to non-US citizens (see Travel Information, Traveling Across the Border).

In 2004 when the Esprit ladies returned to The Empress after a one year absence, the group was approached at the front door by a sturdy man in a blue blazer and an earphone hanging out of his ear. He inquired "Are you from Emerald City?" and uncertain of his intent, the trip organizer Debra Darling simply answered "yes". He then proceeded to explain how The Empress lamented the ladies' absence the previous year and he escorted the ladies in for a fine afternoon of tea.

Of course, you can simply join the group for the ferry ride to Victoria, spend the day how you like and meet up for the ferry ride back to Port Angeles.

Presenter Info

Jan and Lynn Jefferies - Trip leaders

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Tuesday May 12 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Breathe. Bloom. Belong. A Morning Gathering for Significant Others

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Tuesday May 12 at 9:00AM

For SO's ONLY. For the Significant Other of the transgender partner, whether such partner is male, female, or questioning.

Presenter Info

See writeup under "Overview" session

Caela Hopkins-Robinson

Shopping fun in Sequim!

Presenter: Caela Hopkins-Robinson

Off-site, on Tuesday May 12 at 10:00AM

Did you realize you need one more dress for the week? Need something for those last minute touches for your Ascot hat? Maybe you just want to get out in town for a bit with a supportive group? Come join us for a day in Sequim! We'll meet in the Esprit Lobby to setup carpools, then we'll head out for a bit of thifting at Goodwill and Lucky Star, a no-host lunch at the Mariner Cafe, visit our friends at Northwest Bras for fittings, and finish up our excursion dropping by the Maurices in Port Angeles.

Presenter Info

Caela Hopkins (she/her) is one of the co-founders of trans-action.online, a support and advocacy forum for all individuals on the gender identity spectrum. From the greater Seattle area, Caela is a member of the Emerald City Social Club and is a second-generation participant of the Esprit Conference. As part of a multi-generational transgender family, Caela has navigated the challenges experienced by people at different points on the gender spectrum from first jobs to elder care, and brings this broad spectrum of viewpoints to her advocacy.

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Morning

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Tuesday May 12 at 10:30AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Breathe. Bloom. Belong. Together: Expanding Your Circle as a Couple

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Tuesday May 12 at 1:30PM

For transgender couples (all parties must attend)

As you grow and step into new experiences together, it’s natural to encounter moments where you may not feel fully aligned. These moments—often felt as “irritants”—can either create distance... or become powerful openings for connection.

Breathe—pause and recognize what’s showing up for each of you.

Bloom—explore how these challenges can become opportunities for growth and deeper understanding.

Belong—learn how to move forward in a way that honors both individuals and strengthens your connection as a couple.

In this session, you’ll identify the barriers that may be holding you back and discover how to transform them into pathways for expanding your relationship—with intention, honesty, and care.
Because sometimes, what feels like friction...
is actually the beginning of something more aligned, more authentic... and more connected.

 

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Tuesday May 12 at 2:30PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Cindi Berry

Game Night

Organizer: Cindi Berry

Peninsula, on Tuesday May 12 at 7:00PM

Join us for a night of board and card games with your fellow Esprit Attendees.

Esprit Mistress

Karaoke And Art at Studio Bob

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Studio Bob, on Tuesday May 12 at 7:00PM

Karaoke on Tuesday! You don't think you can sing? So what - come out anyway and listen or show your chops!

Presenter Info

TBA

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Morning

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Wednesday May 13 at 9:00AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Wednesday May 13 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Breathe. Bloom. Belong. Through Trust & Betrayal

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Wednesday May 13 at 9:00AM

For SO's ONLY. For the Significant Other of the transgender partner, whether such partner is male, female, or questioning.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

Meili Williams

Responding to Christian Doctrine

Presenter: Meili Williams

Peninsula, on Wednesday May 13 at 10:00AM

A simple toolbox to help the transgender individual communicate positively with those who might use Christian doctrine against them. I'm still finalizing the layout and content of this presentation/class/workshop. Audience is intended to be inclusive of all belief structures, but is meant to dismantle some incorrectly interpreted religious fervor that is aimed at transgender individuals.

Presenter Info

A few years after turning 50, I realized what I once thought was a cross-dressing fetish was actually a deeper truth—a reflection of my inner self. I now recognize that I’m transgender. While I’m still in the closet to most of the world, my wife and siblings know, and their quiet support means everything

Buffie Earley Carpentier

Makeup Q&A with Buffie

Presenter: Buffie Earley Carpentier

Peninsula, on Wednesday May 13 at 11:00AM

Don't know the difference between warm and cold skin tones?  Not sure what foundation shades work the best for you.  Have some product that you're not sure if it's right to have in your makeup bag?  Bring your makeup and your questions to the Peninsula room for a Q&A session where Buffie Earley-Carpentier will answer your questions and work with you on a 1 on 1 basis.

Presenter Info

Hi! I'm Buffie! This will be my 9th ESPRIT. I love doing nails and hair at my salon, attending ESPRIT every year is a week I look forward to! Buff's Beauty Bar has been operating in Port Angeles since 2017. We are a member of Strands for Trans and a member of the LGBTQIA community.

Dotti Berry

Couples Luncheon (for SO Program couples)

Organizer: Dotti Berry

Hotel Lounge, on Wednesday May 13 at 11:30AM

Luncheon in Hotel Lounge for SO Program Couples.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

Esprit Mistress

Croquet on the Lawn

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Back Lawn, on Wednesday May 13 at 12:00PM

Please note - this is a signup option only so we can gauge interest and numbers.

Join us for a friendly and oh so elegant game of good old-fashioned croquet on the back lawn. How elegant, you say? You finest finery from last night's Ascot Races would not be out of place. If you want to really take it to another level by dressing the part of an English aristocrat in My Fair Lady clothes!

What? You can't play croquet? It's even easier than cricket!

What? You can't play cricket? Okay, how about tee-ball with a ground-level tee!

But really, come and enjoy the fun even if you don't want to dress up!

Karen Williams

Blue Monday

Presenter: Karen Williams

Peninsula, on Wednesday May 13 at 1:30PM

All good things come to an end, even Esprit. After living our dreams for a week, first timers often find "the end" stunningly traumatic. We return to our homes, jobs, loved ones, and closets with a heavy heart, tears, sometimes deep depression. Karen shows first timers (and others) how to duck the worst traumas by treating ourselves well afterwards, staying in contact with friends we meet at Esprit, planning treats to look forward to, and applying bunches of additional ideas gathered over the years from sisters facing their own blue Mondays.

Presenter Info

Karen Williams has been a member of the Emerald City since 1987. She has held numerous positions including president, newsletter editor social chair and vice president. Karen has also been involved with Esprit since its inception in 1990. She has also been involved in transgender class panels at the University of Washington, Highline Community College and Peninsula College since 1992. She lives with her wife in Kirkland, Washington and moves back and forth between her male role and female role as necessary.

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Breathe. Bloom. Belong. Again: Rebuilding Trust as a Couple

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Wednesday May 13 at 1:30PM

For transgender couples (all parties must attend)

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Wednesday May 13 at 2:30PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Debbie Petrie

A Beginners Guide to Choosing and Caring for Wigs

Presenter: Debbie Petrie

Peninsula, on Wednesday May 13 at 3:30PM

This session is designed to give you a solid foundation in everything you need to know about wigs. Participants will learn about the different types of wigs available, including synthetic, human hair, lace front, and full lace wigs, along with the benefits and considerations of each. The session will also cover how to select the right wig based on face shape, lifestyle, and desired look, helping you make choices that feel natural and empowering. In addition, you’ll gain practical tips on proper wig care and maintenance—how to wash, store, and style your wig to keep it looking its best and lasting longer. 

Presenter Info

With more than twenty years in the wig and hair industry, Debbie has built a reputation as a trusted expert and passionate advocate for confidence through style. As the owner of The Wig Gallery, she specializes in helping clients find the perfect look—whether for fashion, medical hair loss, or everyday wear. Their deep knowledge spans everything from premium human hair wigs to advanced synthetic options, custom fittings, and personalized styling.

Caela Hopkins-Robinson

Wine Tasting at PNWonderland Wines

Presenter: Caela Hopkins-Robinson

P N Wonderland Wine, on Wednesday May 13 at 7:00PM

"PNWonderland Wine's vision is to provide a vibrant women-owned wine bar to passionately engage with community growth and advocate for inclusion. and encourage kindhearted wine babble"

Join us in walking across the street to the newly-opened PNWonderland Wine Bar!  The owners Jess and Rachel have invited the Esprit attendees over for a non-hosted wine tasting, and have curated a special flight for us of three wines that will be available for $15 per person.  Jess and Rachel are both sommeliers and are more than happy to share about the wines we will be tasting.

Their full selection of wines by the glass will also be available for $9-14 per glass. A small snack menu is also available to order from including cheese, charcuterie, tinned fish, nuts, olives, chicharrones. 

Their main entrance is on Lincoln Street right next to Moby Duck—just look for the Pink Door and now Pink Window. 

https://pnwonderlandwine.com/about/

 

Presenter Info

Caela Hopkins (she/her) is the Chairwoman and second-generation participant of the Esprit Gala & Conference.  From the greater Seattle area, Caela is a member of the Emerald City Social Club and is currently serving as its Social Director. As part of a multi-generational transgender family, Caela has navigated the challenges experienced by people at different points on the gender spectrum from first jobs to elder care, and brings this broad spectrum of viewpoints to her advocacy.  Caela has recently expanded her advocacy outside the Pacific Northwest by serving on the national board of Gamma Kappa Mu Transgender Sorority/Fraternity.

Jan Jefferies

Movie Night

Organizer: Jan Jefferies

Peninsula, on Wednesday May 13 at 7:30PM

Details TBA

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Thursday May 14 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Breathe. Bloom. Belong. As You: Finding Your Voice

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Thursday May 14 at 9:00AM

For SO's ONLY. For the Significant Other of the transgender partner, whether such partner is male, female, or questioning.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Morning

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Thursday May 14 at 9:30AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Skylar Hawthorne

Gender Affirming Surgeries 101

Presenter: Skylar Hawthorne

Peninsula, on Thursday May 14 at 10:00AM

This presentation offers an informative guide for individuals considering gender-affirming surgery. It covers all the gender-affirming surgeries that are available (from vaginoplasty to rib reduction), what each entails, and realistic expectations around aesthetic outcomes, support needs, and recovery timelines. Additionally, this presentation also covers important mental health implications throughout the journey, from pre-surgical preparation and working with affirming therapists to coping strategies during recovery.

Presenter Info

Skylar Hawthorne, LMSW (she/her), is a transgender psychotherapist and academic researcher based in New York City. Her clinical work focuses on neurodivergence, including ADHD, OCD, and autism. As a researcher, she has presented at the World Professional Association for Transgender Health conferences on psychosocial development following gender-affirming surgery. Overall, she is dedicated to advancing transgender mental health.

Elizabeth Burstad

Posing for the Camera

Presenter: Elizabeth Burstad

Juan de Fuca, on Thursday May 14 at 11:00AM

Do you love selfies or avoid them? Self-portraits have turned into a powerful and effective tool for communication and self-expression. In this hands-on workshop, you will learn how to pose your body to use light, angles, and your curves to take flattering portraits. These techniques will help you feel more confident in front of the camera, and to proclaim your presence in the world.
Bring your phone or camera and tripod if you have one. This class does not address how to operate your phone or camera. 

Presenter Info

Elizabeth Burstad is an eager learner with an unquenchable curiosity. She has discovered being creative is a core part of who she is and is ecstatic when others learn and use their creativity to express themselves. Times when folks gather and learn are valued.

Margo Fleming

Find Your Fearless

Presenter: Margo Fleming

Peninsula, on Thursday May 14 at 11:00AM

Participants will learn skills and techniques for confronting fear in public settings. Through stories and songs presenter will lead the audience through the 4 seasons of fear and how to push through to live the life you envision. These skills are especially useful to gender divergent folk in a contentious environment, and are useful to all people who want to live free.

Esprit Mistress

Talent Show Auditions

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Peninsula, on Thursday May 14 at 1:30PM

The Esprit Talent Show is a fun and popular event for the performers, attendees and general public. This year’s show is being produced by the combined skills of the Esprit Committee and a number of talented volunteers. We welcome any type of act; acts in the past have included live musical performances, karaoke, stand-up comedy, magic, dramatic performance…the list goes on! We want the show overall to run about 75 minutes, so to ensure as many acts as possible have time on stage we ask that you limit your act to 5 minutes. With this limitation, and allowing for changeover and short bits between acts we hope to have time for 9-11 acts to perform. If you want to perform, here is a general idea of the production schedule and casting process:

First... SIGN UP! A sign-up sheet will be posted in the registration lobby. Tell us who you are, what you want to do, and how to contact you. If your act involves playback of any music or other technical needs, please contact the technical director Kara Connor  by using the contact page as soon as possible and get her your media or special requests. If at all possible, please get Kara or Caela Hopkins your media prior to the auditions.

You must attend the auditions from about 2:00-4:00pm Thursday in the Peninsula Room. You will have a chance to perform your act and update your biographical information. Keep in mind this space is pretty small compared to the Elks stage, so if your act is a big modern dance piece, you might have to pare it down for the audition!

The show will be cast and rehearsal times posted by Thursday evening. Those that are cast will be assigned a 20 minute rehearsal time for Friday afternoon. During this time you will have the chance to rehearse your act a few times, on the Elks stage, and with the sound system so you can get the feel of the stage. Okay, I know what you’re thinking, "20 Minutes to rehearse???!!?!" Keep in mind: Friday afternoon is CRAZY! We will give you 20 minutes of undivided attention to rehearse, but please be punctual, and ready to go! We have to keep on schedule, or the show staff won't have time to change their clothes for the evening! And we don’t want that to happen!

Check in with the show staff before dinner. We need to know everybody's there! Now...relax. Enjoy your dinner. Have fun! You'll need to get ready backstage before dinner ends, especially if you're one of the first acts. Maybe have someone save your dessert! Go out there and break a leg!

General specifications: The stage is about 30' wide X 12' deep. 4 wireless handheld microphones will be available. Straight or boom stands are available. 6 speaker sound system with stage monitor will be provided. If you need props or furniture beyond a chair or maybe a music stand, you are on your own!

Additional needs: 1 or 2 people to volunteer for backstage coordination/stagehand duty would be awesome! Contact the Talent Show Coordinator or the Volunteer Coordinator if you’d like to help out with the show, but don’t want to be onstage. Wear your most fashionable backstage black! You’ll look all cool talking on a headset! No experience necessary!

Presenter Info

For many years the Esprit Talent Show has been produced by Julia Lauer. She brought just the right mix of energy, skill, talent and passion to the production to raise it to a professional-quality production. The town of Port Angeles looks forward to seeing the show every year.

In 2022 due to a sudden emergency just hours before showtime Julia was unable to run the show. However, thanks to her wonderful preparations, her well-trained team carried the evening off without a hitch.

In 2023 we lost our wonderful Julia. Her team couldn't let her down, though, and from rough notes and memories and sheer determination the 2023 Talent Show went on and was as memorable as all the rest. 

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Breathe. Bloom. Belong. Together: Defining Yourselves & Your Relationship

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Thursday May 14 at 1:30PM

For transgender couples (all parties must attend)

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

Caela Hopkins-Robinson

Simmons-Rockey Wedding

Organizer: Caela Hopkins-Robinson

Peninsula, on Thursday May 14 at 3:00PM

Any time a loving couple decides to vow their commitment to each other is a cause for celebration. One of the most meaningful places to do this is among your friends at Esprit. That is what George Rockey and Bellamy Simmons have chosen to do, and you're all invited to the event!

 

Presenter Info

TBA

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Thursday May 14 at 3:30PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Esprit Mistress

Esprit Ascot Races

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Peninsula, on Thursday May 14 at 7:00PM

The horses are real, the races are real, the fun is real! Only the money is play! Dress up in your fanciest hat - yes, there's a hat contest! (Need inspiration? Try here!)

Hone your betting skills and bring all your horse race savvy - and a healthy appreciation for the whimsical - to the Peninsula Room Tuesday night. You don't have to know anything about horse racing to have a great time! Your lovely and talented hoss boss and mistress of ceremonies Stephanie Mitchell will make sure you stay on track, regardless of what the horses get up to.

Our talented and beautiful decorators, coordinators, runners and counters are all Esprit attendees and all volunteer their time. Would you like to volunteer to help? Contact our Volunteer Coordinator now!

How it works:

We'll have a big screen onto which a series of professionally packaged, actual horse races and steeplechases will be shown (completely new races this year!). Everyone will be provided a starting amount of betting funds. In between races, you'll study the horses, check the odds, watch the horses parade before the race, and place your bets. The races are real, as is the excitement! Assorted prizes will be awarded to the evening's big winners and non-winners alike and there will be special prizes for the most outrageous and glamorous hats!

What to wear:

For fun, we encourage you to dress in the spirit of the Royal Ascot Racecourse. Think "My Fair Lady" and you'll be on the right track.

If you really want to be a stickler for the fashion police, here's how it's done: Ladies wear formal day dress and a hat that covers the crown of the head (since this is an evening event, evening wear is perfectly fine as well). Shoulders and midriff are traditionally covered and hems shouldn't be more than 2" above the knee. Stockings or tights are most proper. The Ascot is timeless and you may pick something stylish from any era.

And in our private room, you don't have to worry about your heels sinking into the turf!

Alyssa Yee

Dancing with DJ Icy Aly

Organizer: Alyssa Yee

Hotel Lounge, on Thursday May 14 at 9:00PM

It's time to put on your favorite dancing dress and those fabulous dancing shoes for an evening with Esprit's own DJ Icy Aly. Spinning popular hits from the 80's, 90's and today, she will definitely keep your heels moving with Electronic Dance Music beats, the newest trend in radio and dance clubs across the country.

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Morning

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Friday May 15 at 9:00AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Friday May 15 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Breathe. Bloom. Belong. to Intimacy: Reclaiming What Matters Most

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Friday May 15 at 9:00AM

For SO's ONLY. For the Significant Other of the transgender partner, whether such partner is male, female, or questioning.

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

Skylar Hawthorne

Trans Mental Health 101

Presenter: Skylar Hawthorne

Peninsula, on Friday May 15 at 10:00AM

This presentation offers a practical and compassionate framework for cultivating contentment as a transgender person. Through a combination of feminist theory and evidence-based therapeutic approaches (including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)), this presentation explores how understanding gender as socially constructed can help alleviate internalized transphobia and then translates these insights into actionable strategies to increase psychological flexibility, clarify values, regulate emotions, and tolerate distress. Attendees will leave with both a conceptual lens and concrete tools to build authentic, connected, and sustainable lives.

Presenter Info

Skylar Hawthorne, LMSW, is a psychotherapist and researcher specializing in transgender mental health. She currently works at Triska Psychotherapy, a trans-led private practice, with a clientele that is exclusively either transgender or exploring their gender identity.

For the past two years, she has conducted research as part of Columbia University’s Division of Gender, Sexuality, and Health. While there, she researched transgender psychosocial development and quality of life after gender-affirming surgery This combination of research and clinical work has shaped her into both a research-informed clinician and a clinically-informed researcher.

Skylar holds degrees in Philosophy, Psychology, and a minor in Music from Boston University, as well as a Master of Social Work from the University of Michigan.

Debbie Caddell

Electrolysis vs Laser Hair removal

Presenter: Debbie Caddell

Peninsula, on Friday May 15 at 11:00AM

This talk is for anyone interested in hair removal. The talk will cover both electrolysis and laser.  I explain differences between electrolysis and laser,  when each are beneficial and when a combination of both can provide additional benefits. The natural color of the hair (especially the root) and the natural color of the skin both influence when to use laser for hair removal and the laser wavelength that will give the best results. I will go through the pro's and cons and have before/ after photos.  

Presenter Info

Debbie Caddell is the owner of Caddell's Laser and Electrolysis Clinic in Bellevue, Washington  Debbie was instrumental in writing the new Esthetics Law in the State of Washington. She helped to make sure training of estheticians in Laser Technology was comprehensive and up to date. She is also licensed to train estheticians to become master estheticians under the state's grandfather clause.  Combined with her years of experience, Debbie continually updates her education by attending seminars and classes and has traveled extensively updating her information on new techniques and lasers being used and staying current on new developments in her field. She has accumulated over 200 hours of continuing education classes. Debbie is dedicated to providing the highest quality service to her clients. She has a warm and friendly personality making it easy to be comfortable around her.

Esprit Mistress

The Amazing Esprit Fashion Show and Luncheon!

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Olympic/Juan de Fuca, on Friday May 15 at 12:00PM

The Fashion Show is another of Esprit's many traditions. Clap, cheer and take hundreds of photos while your fellow attendees model everything from sportswear to casual attire to formal evening gowns. You can even sign up to be one of the models!

You don't need to have any modelling experience - just a desire to wear beautiful clothes and look gorgeous!

Make sure you've signed up by Thursay morning in the Esprit Lobby!.

Lunch is included for Esprit attendees or can be purchased. Please note that lunches must be purchased BEFORE Wednesday. 

Kelly Iriye

You're a FIT, Not a Size (Friday Session)

Presenter: Kelly Iriye

Peninsula, on Friday May 15 at 1:30PM

Tired of bands that move, cups that spill, or straps that just won’t stay put?  Every bra is unique, just like you.  Size doesn’t mean a perfect fit. Kelly Iriye from Northwest Bras in Sequim, WA will be onsite talking about how to correctly fit a bra,with a display of products for demonstration.  Measurements and consulting will be available to find the perfect bra.

Presenter Info

Kelly Iriye is with Northwest Bras, a Sequim, WA bra shop. We support women who've HAD IT with bras. We understand the frustration, irritation, and down-right anger towards the bands that move, the cups that spill, and the straps that just won't stay put.

Northwest Bras can solve your bra-blems. Our fitters are trained to find the perfect fit for your unique body and style. We offer wired, wire-free, lined, padded, and bralette styles so you can take the frustration out of getting dressed in the morning.

Each bra is unique, just like you. Size doesn't mean a perfect fit. We can help you find the perfect fit with our vast size ranges. We cater up to an R cup and a 56 band - let us help you!

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Breathe. Bloom. Belong. Together: Reclaiming Intimacy as a Couple

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Friday May 15 at 2:00PM

For transgender couples (all parties must attend)

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

Jennifer Burnett

Cross-Gender Hormone Treatment for Gender Dysphoria

Organizer: Jennifer Burnett

Peninsula, on Friday May 15 at 2:30PM

Cross-Gender Hormone Treatment for Gender Dysphoria For those who are considering (or have already started) medical treatment to transition to their true gender, there is much information, as well as a great deal of misinformation, available on the Internet regarding the hormones/medications that are commonly employed for this purpose. This often promotes confusion as to what is the best and safest medical approach to a gender transition. This class consists of a Power Point presentation followed by a Q & A session concerning of the different hormone protocols used (for both M2F and F2M), their risks, benefits and side effects. Ancillary testing and additional/adjunct medications will also be discussed. I will also provide resource information and websites where medical providers can gain further knowledge on the treatment of Gender Dysphoria.

Presenter Info

Speaker Bio: Jennifer A. Burnett, MS, MD, FAAFP Past Positions & Accreditations (Now Retired): Assoc. Professor of Family & Community Medicine, UCSF-Fresno; Faculty- Fresno Family Practice Residency Program, Board-Certified in Family Medicine, Medical Advisory Board of the UCSF Centers of Excellence for TG Healthcare. Academy of Family Physicians- Fellow & Lifetime Member, World Professional Association for Transgender Health, Christian Medical & Dental Associations. Lectures delivered: Medical Treatment of Gender Dysphoria, the Spiritual implications of being born Transsexual, et al. presented at National TG Conferences including IFGE, Esprit, Southern Comfort, Gender Spectrum, Philadelphia Trans Health Conference, TG Religious Leader’s Summit, the 2009, 2011 & 2014 WPATH International Symposiums, the American Academy of Family Physicians 2010 Nat. Scientific Assembly and the 2013 National Transgender Health Summit. Additional Appointments & Awards: California’s 2009 LGBT Delegate to the AAFP’s National Congress of Special Constituencies. Recipient of the 2009 UCSF Chancellor’s Award for LGBT Leadership, 2009 Champions of Diversity Award.

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Afternoon

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Friday May 15 at 3:00PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Esprit Mistress

The Julia Lauer World-Famous Talent Show!

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Elks Ballroom, on Friday May 15 at 6:00PM

The Friday Talent Show is our home grown variety show featuring the various talents of Esprit’s attendees. It is the highlight of an evening that begins with cocktails and a full meal served in the Ballroom of the elegant and historic Naval Elks Lodge, a short distance from the Red Lion. Since Esprit 2000, hundreds of attendees have taken to the stage to sing a song, do a skit, maybe some standup comedy or even magic. If you would like to perform, please see the performer guidelines below. We look forward to a fun and entertaining evening for all!

The cocktail hour and dinner are for Esprit attendees only. Then we will open the doors for a suggested donation of $5.00 at the door, all proceeds will benefit Hospice of Clallam County. There will be a no-host bar serving alcohol, so guests must be 21 years of age. Esprit staff and a local security guard will provide security and screen local guests.

After the talent show you are welcome to linger at the Elks as you ponder the rest of the evening. Our very own DJ ICY ALY will be spinning dance tunes for us to dance the night away.

Presenter Info

For many years the Esprit Talent Show has been produced by Julia Lauer. She brought just the right mix of energy, skill, talent and passion to the production to raise it to a professional-quality production. The town of Port Angeles looks forward to seeing the show every year.

In 2022 due to a sudden emergency just hours before showtime Julia was unable to run the show. However, thanks to her wonderful preparations, her well-trained team carried the evening off without a hitch.

In 2023 we lost our wonderful Julia. Her team couldn't let her down, though, and from rough notes and memories and sheer determination the 2023 Talent Show went on and was as memorable as all the rest. 

Esprit Mistress

Registration OPEN - Morning

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Saturday May 16 at 9:00AM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN for checkin, badge photos, badge pickup and general inquiries.

Alyssa Yee

Koffee Klatsch

Presenter: Alyssa Yee

Peninsula, on Saturday May 16 at 9:00AM

A morning get-together for first-time attendees. Come share stories, insights, experiences and feelings with your friends. While you're here, enjoy a morning coffee or tea and catch up on what's coming up today.

FIRST-TIME ATTENDEES ONLY, PLEASE.

Presenter Info

Alyssa attended her first Esprit in 2001. Among her many duties, she is the Big Sister/Little Sister Liaison in addition to leading the Koffee Klatsch.

Dotti Berry

SO Program - Breathe. Bloom. Belong. Forward: Integrating Your Journey as a Couple

Presenter: Dotti Berry

SO Lounge, on Saturday May 16 at 9:00AM

For transgender couples (all parties must attend)

Presenter Info

Dotti Berry, CEO of Training2Transform Global Communications. For details, see writeup under "Overview" session.

Kelly Nelson

Ambassadorship As Activism

Presenter: Kelly Nelson

Peninsula, on Saturday May 16 at 10:00AM

Sign carrying, bullhorn shouting activism has its place, but it's not for everyone. "Ambassadorship As Activism" is all about what each of us, transgender and ally alike, can do to show the world that transgender people are not the scary stereotypes that are so prevalent in current political discourse and mainstream media. 

Presenter Info

Jeri Ann Young and Kelly Nelson are the co-hosts of the award winning Trans Truth Podcast. Their show is heard in nine countries around the world. They have also spoken at other major transgender conferences, including "Keystone" and the Trans Community of New England's "First Event".

Claire Michelle Burgess

Finding your Authentic Voice with Seattle Voice Lab

Presenter: Claire Michelle Burgess

Peninsula, on Saturday May 16 at 11:00AM

The Founder of Seattle Voice Lab will teach about overcoming fear of voice training and explore the playful and experimental side of finding your voice

Presenter Info

Claire Michelle Burgess transitioned in 2014 and spent a few years developing her own voice after years of studying the voice at various levels both internationally and in Washington. She studied vocal performance at Central Michigan University where she soon found herself frustrated by the narrow focus of the education she was receiving. Through years of post private study in both voice and business entrepreneurship, she built Seattle Voice Lab to a team of 36 and has helped thousands of trans voices from all over the world.

Sept Gernez

Saturday Keynote Luncheon

Organizer: Sept Gernez

Olympic/Juan de Fuca, on Saturday May 16 at 12:00PM

In this keynote, Sept Gernez explores how trans identities have been thrust into the political arena and what that means for our communities right now. They'll share how Gender Justice League is responding to this moment and offer a framework for how we, as trans people, can stand in our power and move forward together.

Presenter Info

Sept Gernez (they/them) is a trans non-binary organizer and advocate whose work centers on building grassroots power with and for trans communities. As Advocacy Consultant with Gender Justice League, they advance protective legislation and mobilize community members to lead advocacy in their own voices. Sept believes deeply that the people most impacted by policy should be the ones driving the fight to change it.

Esprit Mistress

Registration by APPT ONLY

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

Esprit Lobby, on Saturday May 16 at 2:00PM

Esprit Registration Desk is OPEN by appointment ONLY. Text 425-736-4013.

Jennifer Thomas

Your Transfeminine Journey

Presenter: Jennifer Thomas

Peninsula, on Saturday May 16 at 2:30PM

Discussion Topics: As time allows, we will focus on several areas which may include:

• Self Identification and Labels - How do you feel about, and do you identify with any of the common labels such as crossdresser, transvestite, transgender, transsexual, bigender, gender fluid, gender nonconforming, two spirit, etc. Have your feelings about labels and whether/where you fit in the label taxonomy evolved over time?
• Presentation Modalities - When it comes to presenting yourself as feminine, are you full time, part time and frequently out in public, part time and rarely out in public, intentionally androgynous, dressing strictly in private spaces, or something else? What would you like this to be?
• Navigating Guilt and Shame - Do you, or have you experienced feelings of guilt and/or shame? Why do you think this is/was the case? If you no longer feel guilty our ashamed, how have you overcome these feelings?
• The Disclosure Dilemma - How many people in your life know about your gender journey? What criteria do you use to decide who to share with? What are some of the pros and cons to sharing your authentic self?
• Interpersonal Relationships - Do you have a spouse or significant other? Do they know about your feminine persona? Do you wish they knew? Did they know about this going in to the relationship or find out later? If later, why was that and how did they react when learning of it? How do you think they are impacted by being in a relationship with a transfeminine individual?
• Cisgender Perceptions - What things do you most wish cisgender people understood about those of us in the gender diverse community? How do you imagine life would be different for you if these things were widely understood?

Note: In this workshop, one’s personal religious heritage and political affiliations may surface. However, in order to keep this a safe space where honest and authentic dialog can flourish, neither promoting nor disparaging religious or political views will be deemed acceptable, and all comments offered must be considered strictly confidential.

Workshop Attendance Considerations: To keep things both intimate and manageable, attendance should be limited to around 12 participants. If demand is sufficient, multiple sessions can be scheduled. However, I only plan to be at Esprit Friday through Sunday this year. If possible, it is desirable to include a mixture of part time and full time transfeminine folks in a given session.

Presenter Info

Esprit Mistress

Graduation Ceremony

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Elks Ballroom, on Saturday May 16 at 4:00PM

Your first time at Esprit is a very big step, no less significant than graduation from school. At Esprit Graduation we recognize and honor those who have made this step in a formal ceremony. Everyone is invited to attend Graduation in the Elks Ceremonial Room and welcome their new sisters. First-timers who have been at Esprit since at least Wednesday are eligible to be part of the Stage Ceremony.

We especially encourage Big Sisters and spouses to attend. Spouses can also be first-timers - after all, it's a big step for you too!

Esprit Mistress

The Saturday Night Gala Dinner!

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Olympic/Juan de Fuca, on Saturday May 16 at 6:00PM

Saturday night is the night we celebrate New Friends, Old Friends and all that has happened during the past week. Where better to enjoy ourselves than the Red Lion Ballroom, transformed into a luxurious banquet room!  Come and support the Community Hospice of Clallam County with our Charity Auction!

Esprit Mistress

Dancing with The Nasty Habits

Presenter: Esprit Mistress

The Metta Room, on Saturday May 16 at 9:00PM

ONE NIGHT ONLY- THE NASTY HABITS

Majority-trans 80’s dance band The Nasty Habits, an Esprit and Port Angeles legend has announced it will be returning to play a post-Gala set.

Esprit attendees get a $5 discount (from $15 down to $10) with your Esprit badge!

While not strictly an Esprit event in the past, in recognition that a majority of our attendees choose to see The Nasty Habits the Esprit Committee has once again chosen this as our official Post-Gala event and band for 2026!

Esprit Mistress

Farewell Brunch

Organizer: Esprit Mistress

Hotel Lounge, on Sunday May 17 at 11:00AM

This is the wind-up to Esprit. It's a time for goodbyes, of course, but also for "see you next year!" It's also a great opportunity to reminisce with your friends. There will be a continental breakfast item with coffee, tea and juice.

Ginger Chien

Storytime with Ginger

Organizer: Ginger Chien

Hotel Lounge, on Sunday May 17 at 11:45AM

As a great closing to our week together, Ginger Chien entertains us with a story or two. Her tales are always funny, touching and thought-provoking, and her engaging, personal style will captivate you from the outset. Please stay for this special treat and the end of our Farewell Brunch.

Presenter Info

I attended my first Esprit in 1999 and spent subsequent years trying new things. This has included volunteering at the Registration Desk, being a Big Sister, performing in the Talent Show, maintaining the Esprit website for a number of years, serving on the Scholarship Committee, and helping to plan Esprit each year. My main excitement at Esprit is rocking out with The Nasty Habits on the final weekend.

My other interests range from the dark to the sublime. On my shelves you'll find dark, disturbing movies and light-hearted children's books side by side. I love costumes, Play-Doh, and blowing into my dog's mouth to make her lips flap. I'm an open-mic storyteller and my stories about life, love, and being have been presented at professional and technical conferences around the country.

I transitioned in 2011 and am proud to work at AT&T Mobility, a company that has earned top honors from Diversity Inc. and 100% rating from HRC year after year, even against constantly evolving best-in-class measures of transgender benefits. If you're curious about how a best-in-class company carries out diversity policies, take a look here and here.